Zeta Class Testimonials

Editor's Note: The following are excerpts from some of the Zeta Class testimonials, reflecting on their experience as a new member of Beta Theta Pi.

Ken Clar '14
The entire pledge process of Beta Theta Pi really opened my eyes to many things I never knew about my brothers, the chapter at John Carroll, and Greek Life in general. It was arduous, but rewarding to go into each pledge class and learn about the history of Beta. I knew once I started learning about the mission, goals, and vision that this fraternity was the right choice for me.

Enzo Milano '14
When I first started my pledge process I was very excited for the road to become a Beta. When I joined Beta, I joined for the men involved in it and the way I saw Beta and the potential importance it had to me in the long run. The pledge retreat was great. I was so glad to get to know the other members of the class as well as a few of the actives on a deeper level. It was nice to see how we related to each other and how we can potentially help each other in the future.

Jon McCandless '14
I have developed deeper bonds with the other brothers that will last a lifetime. During recruitment, I liked the guys of Beta, and felt a strong connection. One of the main reasons is due to the fact that we share common goals and beliefs, which provides strength and unity of our group. I love Beta Theta Pi even more now after going through the pledge process.

Bence Toth '14
I had stumbled upon an outstanding group of men who shared my own beliefs of being a gentleman, leader, and a scholar. As with anything new and unfamiliar, the beginning was a bit rocky and interesting. It sort of seemed to me that it was going to take a lot for this group of 9 young men to come together as brothers. In reality, when I look back on it, it did not take much at all. The group just instantly started to gel. All in all, I often think about how my time as a freshman in my first semester at John Carroll would be different and I know one thing for sure - I would not be who I am today had I not pledged Beta.

Nick Fill '14
When I began to learn the values and history of Beta Theta Pi in pledge class, I was excited, impressed, and drawn in to such an amazing organization. I was fortunate enough to attend the Installation Weekend and this clearly showed me how impressive this organization is. My eyes became opened to the hard work, dedication, and initiative of the members, and this inspired me to take pride in such an organization. Beta has taught me what it means to be a man of principle by not only teaching the values of such a man, but by showing examples through the current members. I am so proud to call myself a new member of Beta Theta Pi and I am excited to embrace myself with all the fraternity has to offer, from brotherhood to serving others.

Mike Moccia '14
The pledge experience for Beta Theta Pi has been an experience that I will never forget. It is an awesome feeling to know that there are people in this world that care for you, and it is also just as rewarding to have people to care about. I am proud to be involved with a group as elite as this one, and I'm proud to call every member of Beta Theta Pi my brother.

Steve Frabotta '11
I am very pleased with my experience thus far within Beta Theta Pi. Although my situation is different than the other Zeta Class members being a senior and having only one semester to look forward to as an active, I know I would not have gotten to know my fellow Zeta Class members as well without pledge classes, retreats, dinners, etc. to not only get us togteher, but also to get to know each other a little better each time.

Joel Baker '14
It was really nice to learn that one of the biggest things about this fraternity is the leadership skills that are pushed by the different leadership opportunities. This really excites me because I feel that I need some help in developing my leadership skills and this fraternity is the perfect place to do it. The different experiences and brothers have really made me realize that these guys are my brothers and that they are here for me and I am there for them.

Troy Murphy '14
The past eight weeks have been rewarding and great bonding experiences with the Zeta Class and all members. I see Beta as more of a family because we can keep each other on the right track, help a brother in need, and praise a brother when he accomplishes a goal. I know that Beta will continue being the most positive influence I have at school and continue to be in the future.

A Powerful Experience

Editor's Note: One week ago today, the Zeta Class was initiated in the Hall of Chapters in Oxford, Ohio, becoming the newest brothers of the Eta Epsilon Chapter of Beta Theta Pi. Two initiates reflect on the experience.

"Being initiated into Beta Theta Pi was one of the best days that I have had throughout my time at John Carroll University. This initiation brought all eight weeks of the pledge process together with everything I have learned. From pledge class and retreat to different service events with the brothers, I feel extremely lucky to say that my pledge process was an incredible experience. It was very eye-opening to see the dedication that all active members put into this Initiation ritual. It really put into perspective the history and values of Beta Theta Pi. Over 150 years of Beta Theta Pi's sacred principles speaks wonders for its success. I can't wait to make the most out of my time as a Beta member, and I look forward to influencing future pledges as these active members have done for me."

-Reflection by Kenneth M. Clar '14

"The morning was here and by morning, I mean 4:30am. We all met in the atrium and got into our cars and were off to Oxford for Initiation. The nine of us neophytes were excited to take our membership one step further to becoming brothers of the Eta Epsilon Chapter of Beta Theta Pi.

Going to Initiation and seeing how much dedication the brothers had put in to our day reassured me that I picked the right fraternity. Each of them displayed the qualities and values a Beta will always possess. I came in to college a bit apprehensive about joining a fraternity. As soon as I found Beta, we clicked. I have found my best friends for the rest of my life and I know they will do anything for me as I would for them. Being initiated was a powerful experience and I know that the bonds and growth of myself in Beta Theta Pi will only become stronger and my brothers will teach me how to be the best man I can be."

-Reflection by Troy S. Murphy '14

A Pinnacle of Brotherhood Bonding & Leadership Development

Editor's Note: As we mark the one-month anniversary of Eta Epsilon as a chapter of Beta Theta Pi, one of our brothers takes a moment to reflect on the amazing four days we had in Washington, D.C. at the 171st General Convention.

Imagine: it was half past three. The brisk cold of the early morning sent chills down my spine, and the darkness screened my vision. Time began to slow. I could feel the pulsing of the blood in my veins in the still of the morning, awaiting the inevitable seven-hour drive. Yet we knew of what was to come; we knew time would compensate for itself so soon - as soon as we reached the "capitol" of capitals, the home to true and passionate leadership - Washington, D.C. Yes, it was time for the General Convention - for the 171st General Convention of Beta Theta Pi!

As we crossed the Arlington Memorial Bridge, seeing the imposing size of the Pentagon to our right and the Washington Monument and Lincoln Memorial in the distance beyond it, we saw the potential in the upcoming days and were prepared to seize this incredible, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity - because for our colony, this weekend was truly a pivotal moment. A charter was in sight, a further identity was obtainable, and the men to achieve this were there and, simply put, ready!

With sixteen brothers in attendance, we felt dominant all weekend. We were being recognized with a handful of awards, having brothers speak in front of the whole convention, and showing our strength in numbers we made sure to plant ourselves in Leadership College tracks in order to bring back as much advice as we could from brothers of similar and even different demographics - brothers who cared so much for our colony even though we had never met before. And while we had so much of a presence as the newest chartered chapter of Eta Epsilon, we made sure to maximize the experience: to meet as many new brothers as possible, to make effective proposals to the Board of Trustees for adjustments and innovations on ritual obligations and stronger application of recruitment programming, and to just soak in the rich history and architecture of a city one can never visit enough!

The weekend was truly a pinnacle of brotherhood bonding and leadership development. With numbers in the high hundreds, Leadership College was most effective as facilitators taught us time-tested skills that can be applied back in our individual chapters, colleges, and futures beyond. With inspirational words from Beta senators, astronauts, and journalists coupled with motivational music videos and one-on-ones from members of the Board, the 171st General Convention fostered a stronger, confident, and more understanding leader within me, with ever more friendships and awesome experiences with my brothers of Beta.

So when I say "imagine," know it CAN be a reality!

Reflection by Christopher D. Shaheen '12
Chapter Vice President

The Talk of Convention

Editor's Note: The John Carroll Colony of Beta Theta Pi received its charter after a unanimous vote of the delegates to the 171st General Convention, held outside of Washington, D.C. One advisor reflects on this momentous occasion.

How sweet it was! The 171st General Convention of Beta Theta Pi held in Arlington, Virginia August 5-8, 2010 was a most memorable occasion for all John Carroll Betas and advisors. 21 actives, alumni, and advisors attended this exciting event and helped celebrate the chartering of the Eta Epsilon Chapter...that's right...Chapter - not Colony.

The chapter's presentation team of Andy Lane, Nathan Catalano, J.J. Kuczynski, and Kyle Sobh was outstanding in its early morning presentation to the Charters Subcommittee. I have attended many of these chartering review sessions over the years and there have been none better. Not only did the committee give swift approval of its recommendation for chartering but the convention delegates also acted quickly without anyone raising any objections. Putting it in perspective, this was not the case with any of the other three colonies applying for charters this year. So...three years since October 1, 2007 to August 6, 2010 boiled down to three hours from presentation to chartering to a hearty welcome ("There's a Scene Where Brothers Greet...") into the convention legislative halls of Beta Theta Pi.

What may have seemed like an eternity - 3 years - was well worth it for all John Carroll Betas who worked hard to achieve this ultimate goal. And for those who worked on the Chartering Petition, it was a knockout.

But there is more! An hour or so later, the Awards Luncheon was held and Eta Epsilon received 6 awards which was great recognition for the newest chapter of Beta Theta Pi. J.J. and Andy were the featured speakers and their presentations were excellent. The "Reserved JOHN CARROLL" table signs told the story - no other chapter had that.

All in all, Eta Epsilon was the talk of convention. And why not?!?

I have worked with several chapters over the years and - without a doubt - Eta Epsilon has been the most rewarding. There is excellent rapport with advisors, a great deal of enthusiasm, outstanding undergraduates, and a desire to "just do it" and be the best.

The goal now is to keep the momentum going. This is just the beginning. Many opportunities exist for Eta Epsilon to shine in 2010-2011 - Chapter installation, Sisson Award, Knox Award, housing - as well as campus and community activities along with high academic achievement which are now part of Eta Epsilon's profile.

Congratulations to the entire chapter!

Reflection by Joe Chinnici, Ohio State '64

Eta Epsilon Financial Advisor

On Top of the World

Editor's Note: J.J. Kuczynski was one of ten Betas in the Class of 2010 to graduate on the Quad at John Carroll University on Sunday, May 23, 2010. He was selected after a competitive process to be the Millor Orator, the only student given the opportunity to speak during the ceremony. J.J., also a former colony president, reflects one month later about his experience at the 2010 Commencement Exercises.

From start to finish, the day of Commencement was one of the greatest days of my life. It all began when I had the honor of meeting Tom Brokaw. I really didn't expect more than a handshake and possibly a picture, but he was kind enough to share with me a few stories and some encouraging words to help me prepare for my speech. Then, I picked up my seating card and met up with the greatest guys I know to take the traditional Beta senior picture in front of the Ignatius statue. It was a bittersweet moment because, although it was awesome to have all of the seniors together, there is no telling when that will happen again.

Sitting through the practice ceremony was nothing special, but processing out of the gym to the quad was. At that moment, everything became real. With the sun shining and the quad swarmed with people, I was hit with a rush of excitement. While sitting in my seat during the opening of the ceremony, I was anticipating that my excitement would turn into nervous energy as my time to speak drew near. Much to my surprise, my excitement became complete confidence. As I was introduced and walked to the podium, I was quite relieved that the big moment had finally come. It had been months in the making! Looking out at the never-ending crowd, I couldn't help but smile. It was the single proudest moment of my life. Not only was I representing my school and graduating class, but I was also representing my family, friends, and fraternity.

After nailing my speech and receiving my degree, I realized that, for the first time, the most important people in my life were all in the same place together. This included my entire family, my incredible girlfriend, and my friends for life. I really lived that day on top of the world and I am determined to feel that way again in the future.

Reflection by John J. Kuczynski '10

Letters for a Lifetime

After 4 years as an undergraduate student at John Carroll and 3 academic years as a Founding Father member of Beta Theta Pi, this chapter of our lives is officially over. They say that letters are for a lifetime and I couldn't agree more especially after these past three weeks. On May 7th, the colony celebrated the achievements of my fellow senior members over a BBQ at the home of our Colony Counselor, Ric Eickhoff. We all had a great time playing cornhole and Frisbee and enjoyed plenty of delicious food. Following the games and meal, the entire active brotherhood and initiated advisors took part in the Senior Send-Off ceremony which triggered many emotions; it was a great way for the seniors to lend a farewell to their fellow brothers and leave them each with a personal message or lifelong advice. The final stanzas of the Bridge Builder poem were revealed to each of us as a nice way to tie our Beta experience together and exemplify the lifelong nature of this organization. After taking some senior pictures, the group assembled to be surprised by a 45-minute long picture video that showcased each of us seniors and our lives from birth to present. It was absolutely amazing; myself and the other seniors are grateful to have this lifelong memoir.

As finals finished up, 8 of the 10 Beta seniors ventured to Put-In-Bay, an island in Lake Erie where we spent the weekend celebrating and enjoying the completion of our collegiate undergraduate careers here at Carroll, with about 2/3 of the graduating class. We spent the weekend in our privately-rented chalet and toured the island via golf cart and mopeds. We all had a fantastic time and made memories that will last forever. Following Put-In-Bay, many of the other seniors and I took part in other Senior Week activities that the University sponsored for the graduating class. We attended Casino Night, sponsored by Alumni Relations, and many of the brothers took home some great prizes. The Senior Celebration on the Goodtime III was an awesome evening dinner cruise that toured the Cuyahoga River and ventured out into Lake Erie where we continued to dance under the stars. As Brother Bradish constantly reminded us, "You can't have a bad time on the Goodtime!" Friday evening, we made our way downtown to the Indians vs. Reds game as we patiently awaited the arrival of our parents Saturday morning. Andrew Kolupski, Jeff Bradish, and I hosted our families, friends, brothers, and neighbors to a delicious BBQ Saturday afternoon at our home prior to the Baccalaureate Mass at Gesu. The Mass was absolutely stunning, from the congregation to the flowers, and even the specially-composed recessional hymn by Brother Ehrbar. Later that evening we relived our college night scene with our parents in Coventry, only to be greeted by the alarm clock after only about 4 hours of sleep Sunday morning for Commencement on the Quad!

As I mentioned before, the letters we wear truly are for a lifetime. Although they each have their own hidden meaning, they mean so much more to each and every one of us. The memories we've made over the past 3 years and especially in the past 3 weeks have only added to their individual value and meaning to each of us.

On behalf of the graduating Senior Class, I would like to thank all of the brothers for an amazing experience!

Reflection by Kyle M. Sobh '10

Long Anticipated...Yet Dreaded

Editor's Note: Our annual tradition of bidding farewell to the graduating class begins with the Senior Send-Off, an event that combines a brotherhood picnic with a sometimes emotional ceremony. This year's Senior Send-Off took place on May 7, 2010.

Senior Send-Off...an event that is long anticipated and yet at the same time, dreaded. As has been done since the beginning of our colony's existence, the Senior Send-Off took place at [chapter counselor] Ric's beautiful residence. As always, the food was bountiful and delectable, and there was a great turnout of active brothers and advisors.

As we formed the circle in the woods and the ceremony began, I couldn't help but remember past Senior Send-Offs. I remembered brothers who had graduated and moved on with their lives to different places around the world, and realized that many of us seniors may be doing the same in the months ahead. I was so captivated in thought that when it came my turn to speak I realized that I had not thought of anything to say. Fortunately, I think it was for the best because I was able to speak from my heart rather than ramble off some well-rehearsed piece that I had previously prepared. I was filled with immense pride as I gazed outward from the center of the circle at the quality men who together make up Beta Theta Pi. I realized then that although many of us Founding Fathers would be graduating, that the John Carroll Colony of Beta Theta Pi is in good hands and that the future of the colony is bright.

Reflection by Kurt M. Hauber '10